tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368904647802764772.post6083825432426711530..comments2024-03-25T04:38:52.852-04:00Comments on Cutie Booty Cakes: RevelationAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05634096295956313230noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368904647802764772.post-87949512014209880022012-06-20T15:10:06.033-04:002012-06-20T15:10:06.033-04:00Renee... moving, powerful, honest, inspiring, from...Renee... moving, powerful, honest, inspiring, from your soul. Yes, a revelation. I grew up with a Dad who treated me so beautifully... an only daughter sandwiched between 2 boys. My Dad had a very tough life, ran away from home to join the Navy at age 17 and escape life on his stepfather's farm... but his Mom, my Grandma, was a beacon in his life. She infused my Dad with love, love from some heavenly place. She had a lovely smile and huge hugs. That was my Dad... hugs, smiles, warmth... LOVE. When I reflect back, I know it was his Mom's great love that made him the Dad he was. When I was in jr. high school, I remember talking about my Dad one day. I must have talked with such love that it made a few girls in my class talk about how their dads were the opposite. They didn't like their dads. I was shocked. I never knew this could happen. These girls told me how lucky I was. One girl wrote in my yearbook how she would always remember me as the "girl who loves her Dad." My Dad died at age 47, suddenly one morning, of a heart attack. I was 22. My life was ripped open. I looked for men like my Dad, but I found some pretty bad guys for a stretch... selfish, users, tried to make me feel small and useless... even abusive... then I met Barry. I knew immediately that he was different. Kind, considerate, brilliant, loving, genuine. Like my Dad. I have always felt beyond blessed to find 2 men who are so very special, and I've told my kids this since they were old enough to listen. Audrey and Jane got jammed up more than once each with complete jerks... but at least could recognize how they were NOT like their Dad. Your revelation about your Dad and YOU and your relationship is so very, very important... also not losing sight of why people do what they do and become what they become. There's always a reason. It's the SELF realization that brings happiness and LOVE... everything you are and everything you give. You are the sum of your life, dear, beautiful friend... and that is beyond AMAZING. Everything and everybody has lead you to where and who you are today. Strong, beautiful, brilliant, fun, fabulous, independent. The beauty is that you KNOW this and your beautiful child is the recipient of your great love and teachings... xox!Sharon - MomGenerationshttp://www.momgenerations.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368904647802764772.post-77112135046432541642012-06-19T06:33:09.080-04:002012-06-19T06:33:09.080-04:00As a twice divorcee, I'm a strong believer in ...As a twice divorcee, I'm a strong believer in finding the love you deserve. It's hard to step out on your own but you have to be happy and keep growing. Your an amazing women. Don't forget all you've done and all you will doOnicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04270348009583572124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368904647802764772.post-27706999619840686882012-06-18T16:03:56.112-04:002012-06-18T16:03:56.112-04:00Good for you! Stay strong and that special man wi...Good for you! Stay strong and that special man will come along... or not! No matter what I know from the strength of your post, you will be just fine!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03323881664284941551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368904647802764772.post-74620084226764256612012-06-18T10:13:41.960-04:002012-06-18T10:13:41.960-04:00Beautiful. Such a wonderful post from a wonderful ...Beautiful. Such a wonderful post from a wonderful person. <br /><br />Hugs & Smiles!Wifeyhttp://www.runwifeyrun.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368904647802764772.post-3536131118557107012012-06-18T09:05:47.268-04:002012-06-18T09:05:47.268-04:00xoxoveep veephttp://www.veepveep.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368904647802764772.post-19699601587997785382012-06-18T06:13:00.455-04:002012-06-18T06:13:00.455-04:00That was lovely Renae. And I think what you wrote ...That was lovely Renae. And I think what you wrote of is experienced by most women. We are searching for total acceptance and to be adored for who we are. Unfortunately, it is easy to fall for someone who gives us all the attention and says all the things we crave. Now that you understand the reasons behind a lot of your emotions, you can move forward. Don't be hard on yourself. That's just maturity. I feel for the women my age who still fall for the bad boy. I love something Joyce Meyer said. Stability releases ability. Only in a stability place in life (whether in relationship or not) can we be all that we were created to be.Jamie Mileshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03464973297373372882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368904647802764772.post-46428625033067019452012-06-17T21:47:49.681-04:002012-06-17T21:47:49.681-04:00Renee, I love you for this post (among other thing...Renee, I love you for this post (among other things) and I want you to know that you are not alone. Even as a happily married woman, I struggle to find self love, and I've been working on it a lot lately. <br /><br />And I just want to remind you that it is never a failure to leave a relationship that isn't fulfilling or working for you on whatever level. It is better to be honest with yourself and move on to find true love than to keep what you had for fear of failure. Love ya, and you know I'm always here if you feel like talking :)Jennaehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03950758201882092682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368904647802764772.post-12860501491601353572012-06-17T20:48:09.435-04:002012-06-17T20:48:09.435-04:00Thanks for your honesty. I have definitely been th...Thanks for your honesty. I have definitely been there. Looking at my HEAVENLY Father's love and example led me to find the example of love that I desired on this earth. I hope that for you too!Kimberly/Foodie City Momhttp://www.foodiecitymom.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368904647802764772.post-50027709016998713612012-06-17T20:38:07.538-04:002012-06-17T20:38:07.538-04:00That was a moving post. I was touched by your hone...That was a moving post. I was touched by your honestly.Mocha Dadhttp://www.mochadad.comnoreply@blogger.com